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Friday, March 30, 2012

दोस्ती ऐसी....

वो आए मेरी ज़िन्दगी में,
मिलकर हँसी मज़ाक के संग।
ढेर सारी शुभकामनाएँ मेरे लिए लाया।
पढाई में हो या हो फिर बात किसी ओर की,
कभी यह कभी वो कर, हर पल साथ निभाया।
कहने को तो दोस्त था पर दोस्त से बढकर पाया।
सुख दुख एक कर, कुछ लम्हें बीते ऐसे,
खुद रोए पर भी पलके गीली मेरी न चाहे।
न जाने ऐसा क्या था...
मेरे दुखों का कागार ढोकर भी खुशियों की झलक झिलमिल उसमें पायी।
कहता तो सिर्फ यही ʻबस अच्छा लगता है तुम्हारा साथʼ
शायद इसीलिए देता था साये की तरह हरपल मेरा साथ।।

दिन, माह, साल, लम्हा-लम्हा बह गया।
मौसम ने भी ली जाने कितनी ढेरों अंगडाई।
फिर भी पायी न कभी तेरी दोस्ती में खाई।
तेरी दोस्ती की गाँठ ऐसी बँधी,
न जाने वक्त की लहर सरक गई ऐसे,
दिन, महीना ओझल हो गई जैसे।।

कहता था बनूँ मेरे लिए सबसे खास....
बना वो कब मेरे लिए एक उपहार, वो न जाने,
सोने सी दोस्ती को हीरों से झढा दी,
रिशतों की अहमीयत को ओर भी बढा दी।
डूब गया वो दोस्ती में शायद इस कदर,
साहिल को वो पीछे छोड, निकल गया कोसों दूर....
हम हुए इस मंज़र के सैलानी अब,
सच यही,भाग्य की लेख को मिटा सके न कोई..

फिर भी...
न है कोई शिकवा तुमसे और न ही कोई गिला
दिया न कुछ और न शायद कुछ दे सकूँ,
सिलसिला तेरी अच्छाईयों का भूला सकूँ न कभी
याद रहोगे तुम और तुम्हारी प्यारी दोस्ती सदा ।

चाहूँ तहे दिल से हर पल भला तेरा,
खिले तु किसी भी बाग में चाहे,
हवा का रुख हरदम तेरी ओर लहराए,
फूलों की महक आए,
खुशियों की सावन बरसे।
गम के बादल कभी न छाये,
आँसु की एक बूँद न पाये।
खाली न जाए दुआ इस दोस्त की,
बस चाहूँ यही, सुख, समृद्धि हो हरपल तेरी परछाई।।

Friday, March 23, 2012

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Friday, March 9, 2012

Women's day.... 4 you Mamma!

Today is International Women's Day. So, is celebrated in every corner of the world irrespective of cast and creed. Its very true, the WOMEN whom almost the entire society use to look downward is indeed the builder of that very 'society' and that 'society' is the second stage after the 'home'. And we all are well acquainted that the first place[Home] is swiftly run by the WOMEN in most of case.
Women are there in many forms, some are gifted in the form of mother, some shares in the form of sisters, some comes as daughters, some in wife and so on.. Though they all falls under the same category that is the 'Feminine' but [I personally feel and i guess most of too feels so] from those, 'One' that should always be considered or honoured as a top is the greatest women who steps in our life in the form of 'MOTHER' cum a goddess,who bounds us in her womb for the whole nine months[quite long duration in ones life if we ponder upon] and prevents from the outer world and gracefully bears all pains and sufferings silently just for the well being for her young one. She is the one who lead us to this outer world and brought up till now. And one with whom naturally the first and the most wonderful and the sacred relation of the our life has been tied, i.e, the relation of 'Mother and Child'. It is just a drop out of an ocean to exhibit the greatness of MOTHER in every individual's life.
Aama, Mamma, Mother or Ma, though all of these words belongs from different languages but once spoken, arise the same feeling, a feeling which entirely touches our heart and mind. Have a try…! A word ‘Mother’ itself bears such a heart touching power.
So, today I would like to dedicate this Women’s Day for the greatest woman of my life without mentioning whose name contemporary, my life will be in completed.. Of course! I am conversing about my Mamma. She is the source of my strength and happiness. I Love her so..much and more than that I respect her because of her great personalities. She is a very kind hearted woman which I personally experienced and I also accumulated many more about her past life from other sources and which adorned her life and enhances her values in my eyes. Just as we siblings giving high regards to her, so as the other too, who are well acquainted with her qualities. And being a daughter of her, is always been a source of proud for me as well as for my siblings not only because she gave us birth but because she is a perfect women enriches with all the qualities one wishes to seek in one's life as a Mother, as daughter as a wife and as a sister. And above all she is the best mother. She never let us to feel alone and sick specially to me. Though she doesnt form any partiality among her children but my siblings always teases her that she do so with me. So I might also suspect sometime because she cares me a lot, one reason is very clear behind that, few years back i was caught in the disease for almost three years since then I lost my health entirely. In a way it seems my whole life has changed[but my family always holds my hand in order I may not feel insecure]. As my elder brother lost his life by struggling with the same disease few years ago. Though my family wont utter a single word but i know the terror is in there heart and mind that this evil disease may not take me away too. So, they[my family] try their best to protect me all the time[ may god forgive me for the pain I am giving to them and to everyone but I am helpless..!! I can not change the cross lines of my forehead.. Almighty lord! M sorry!!] Apart from that, Ones I used to be the most healthiest member in our home during that time also, I was specially mothered. It may be because m very naughty in their eyes, they used to complained me often, or as i stay far away from home most of time since i joined this university orr... I may be too fortunate.
By the way do you know one of the major point was there on our relatives tongue just to irritate my sisters is that I was given a better education field as I was in private school and they were admitted in government school and so on. But that was not like as they use to point because during that time my parents can not afford there all children to be educated in private schools because they have got a financial problem. And which my siblings know, still they always used to tease just to enjoy the moment. Just as my mother cares me and our siblings, such affectionately she also cares her grand childrens too. As I am here to study 'Buddhist Philosophy' actually I feel uneasy to utter so, because I dont know much. If I am not misinterpreting, among all sentient being Buddha gave priority to the species, whom we called as 'Mother'. When I go through some Buddhist text where the concept of 'Motherhood' is conversed, I take pleasure in reading that part because it realises me of the truth that 'how grateful the mother is in everyones life' and its also easy to digest because the qualities which were described in the text were very much I see in my Amma. So after understanding the notes my regards and love increased moment after moment towards my mother.
She is not only a good mother but also proved to be a very good life partner in a sense, a wife for my father, he himself stated oftenly and we observed it too. My parents married some 40 yrs ago [Though its not an arrange marriage but not so as love marriage too, in better words, they encountered by their fate]. She cared and respect him, so as my father do. Both of them are very close [we never saw them distroying the family's peace, in a sense they dont fight and quarrel]. I salute my mother, to sustain this loving relation, she had given up her entire life for her husband and childrens. I heard, before my birth my father was caught into an illness for a long period when my elder brother and sister were very young. At that time my mamma was only there to run the home and to manage the fooding for all the members and medication of my father and many more... My god! How she managed all in a time? I even cant imagine the moment! Her life was very tough during those time or might be almighty lord was testing her patience. Her small shoulder was loaded with the huge responsibilities still she stands on, go on struggling and did her duties marvellously. And owing to her hard work, good medication and god's grace, my father got a new life and we got a happy family and a good life. And one of my mother's best point is, she never boast of her struggling towards us. She is much more than my words could ever speak...such motherhood I use to enjoy. Here its me, expressing about my feeling towards my mamma na, so I am clicking few flashes of her nature and gratitudes towards me and towards my siblings and I am sure such is the feeling of every child, because its Motherhood which is considered above all
Therefore, specially today I[though I always]humbly bow down for all the Mother of World whose greatness is beyond compare..

AND TO YOU MY DEAREST AAMA,
YOU ARE THE ONE WITH WHOM I AM PROUD TO BE WITH. YOU MIGHT BE THE FRUIT OF MY GREATEST VIRTUE I EVER ACCUMULATED. I AM FORTUNATED TO BE YOUR DAUGHTER.AND I WISH YOU MAY BE MY MOTHER IN EVERY BIRTH.ALWAYS BE THERE WITH ME LIKE YOU DO TILL NOW. LET ME SLEEP UNDER YOUR SHADOW.IF YOU UNVEIL UR SHADOW FROM MY HEAD...THEN I WILL LOSS FOREVER...........................
MY LORD! MAY ALL THE HAPPINESS N FORTUNE OF MY PART GOES IN MY MAMMA'S FAVOUR. SHE MAY GET THE WORLD OF HAPPINESS AS SHE DESERVES. BE WITH HER ALWAYS. MAY SHE LIVE LONG!!

[In the beginning of this writing I have addressed of being written this on International Women's Day i.e, on 8th March but however I couldnt complete it on that very day. So I published it on the next day.]

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Friendship

I admire three things most in this world. Family, teachers and friends. May be its because almighty god had wonderfully blessed me with these three or for me he might have chooses the best of human being and distributed them in three different wonderful gifts and when I stepped in this world, he blessed me with first pack; a loving and caring family and gradually when I forwarded my step towards the outer world, my lord welcomed me with the blend of two marvelous present; a gift of great teachers and true friends. These three characters plays a central role in my life.
And today ie, 16th feb 2011 or I should say just a few minutes back I had a long chit chat with my sis whom I was sharing my daily routines as I was not feeling well. And during that conversation, I was speaking my heart; I was piling up my friends favours towards me similarly when I am with them I used to count my family’s. It is not because I want to show off or in better words boost of that people love me that much. I speak such because my heart feels so. And I am a follower of my heart most of time.
And sincerely speaking, one who truly loves and cares me (of course not in negative sense) who used to shower his/her good favors and blessings on me, for them if I am disable to repay, then at least I can’t bear the sin of forgetting them; in simple words I never forget those people and their contributions. That may be a good point in me to be counted on. Now countdown should be done too right?? Hehe!! So, point to be noted! Among the chain of my negative points, the matter is, I don’t feel comfort or I should say I don’t want to count up their own words to them. Basically it is good to let others aware of their good deeds na. But this statement doesn’t fit in my small brain. That’s why It is quite difficult for me to follow this..
Anyway where was I ?? lets not go further.. Yeah!! I was on phone line with my elder sister na. Yeah! She was complaining me that I always repeat these words ``May be it’s the best karmic fruit, that I m in touch with such a good comrades who cares me a lot.” She continued,` As every action is followed by an appropriate reaction. You never miss to count their contribution then naturally you might have did the same with them too.” I appreciate her words. I stated,`Yeah! My Dear! It would be my best attempt to act according to their contribution though I can’t, because their contribution is simply beyond words.” Dickey cease me at next moment,`Oh sweet heart! Please don’t drop your tears. Hehe!! I was just kidding. Its nice for us that you truly consider your friends.” Dickey?? Sorry! I forgot. Lets meet my elder sis, Dickey. She is a wonderful sis cum one of my best of friend. I don’t take her personally. So, I don’t use any formal words before her name, as we are accustomed to do so. And the interesting thing is without being formalities makes the relation closer.. sometime…I mean it. I personally experienced so. Hehe!! Apart from the name she is always honored by me as she deserved. And she is well acquainted with that and that’s what I count. Oh Godddd!! Why I am diverting too much…?? lets be on the track again…Dickey permitted me to take rest after my sweet and sour chit chat. I think she was tired off giving ears to my long long tale..Hehe. I am too much na.. but I can’t cease my words when I am enjoying her company. Anyway finally and unwillingly bidding her good bye I happily put down my call.
Ohhh! FRIENDS….MY FRIENDS….!!!!!
Almighty god might have many complaints `How poor the followers are” especially like me. How beautifully he offered me with three inestimable treasure. Among which first treasure,is no doubt more than I ever expectated but from rest of two..my god!! `selection out of election’ interesting na Hehe. I am so sorry! but I am very very selective in some cases. Alike everyone I also have so many friends. And I am not that much lucky having all buddies alike. And seriously speaking I don’t want to be that much fortunate. I am more than contented being with what in my hand. So, undoubtedly here my friends refer to few of them whom I consider close among close….
These are just a one sided I mean how My Close of Close friends reflects in my eyes. That is what I really feel and what my eyes could judge. Beyond that its upon few of them .And its not at all necessary that they must also look on me as I do. No matter, how they define me. As we all are well acquainted with the nature of this world where changes takes place within a moment. And who knows along with the passage of time and place towards me, their affection may reduce. From myside even if I don’t exhibit to the world but their memories are always captured in me somewhere. And that is the most important thing for me. Now, as transparent as the crystal, I have view their image in this plain paper.
Thank you MY LORD and Thanks for all of them who have hallowed the name of FRIENDSHIP in my eyes..!!

Simplicity

I am quite fond of this word.Yeah! it is SIMPLICITY… May be every mind has got a bombastic definition for this word like you might have. Hehe.. I don’t know much about simplicity. For me it is as simple as the word itself indicates. Let me come to the point, Simplicity! When I ponder upon this very word what my mind sense is the authentic beauty of personality. I am fond of simplicity which doesn’t denote my distance from other world. Here my point of simplicity is not only relevant with ones outer personality, though it must be there especially in this modern era, where everyone intend or dare to take decision at the very first moment. No space is given for the second thought. Like a famous saying-
First impression is the last impression.
It may be suitable for some mind at some extent. But what really fascinate my soul is the ultimate beauty which elaborates ones pure, natural inner heart.
Here I indicate, one whose body speech and mind speaks only one language. Yeah! the language of simplicity which is not at all surrendered by the outer appearance only.
Do you think such sort of human being.. and in this century? Uhh..! quite difficult…I guess so but not impossible na..? Just wait! Don’t lead my words as granted. Let me explain you in concise… Being simple and to lead such a life is certainly a worthwhile and to be honored and accepted by every heart sooner or later. Naturally I am not criticizing anyone who takes a credit of being human in this world. The fact is that I strongly believe that every heart bears a part of simplicity hidden somewhere inside the corner of their soul, a glimpse of which seems to be appear once in a blue moon. And that is the SIMPLICITY. Yeah! My type of simplicity; which reflects an ultimate beauty on which I am fascinated.
Therefore, in a nutshell, simplicity…! I am fond of is, within every soul.The only matter is how and when it seems to be visualized. Am I right?
So, see how simple is this simplicity..

A Life miles away from ones sight…………

It is strange thing that although I belong to a family whose main or chief occupation indicates Business but from my childhood I don’t have any interest in this field. I am unaware about others but In my mind the word business exhibits a sort of great marketing whose progressing speed is approaching the seventh sky specially in this technological era. This is just a piece of general criterion of business atleast in my perception. So, one thing is clear that what I want to mention here about business is fairly simpler from the former one. Actually there are countless business basically whose strings moves all according to the status of beholders. Ok! Let me not confuse you more hehe..
Lets have a glance on our world! Today I will lead you to such corners where you never been earlier and may be wont in future too. hehe..
Just move from the initiative step of our society that is family (a collection of individuals).Every home carries out with an occupation to survive, irrespective of the case rich and poor. Likewise, in this field we stands in the queue of business. Infact a minor sort of business ; I indicate, a seasonal seller radically changes selling items according to the season. There are two main seasons in which the business of buying and selling works firmly; in summer when selling takes place in our own residential place. And the second one is in winter in which a deal of maximum four months selling is reserved. We have to move far away from our home for the distinct period. This is somewhat tougher than the former one .Because there are numbers of hurdles we have to tackle not only physically but also mental stresses which follows like a shadow. I can’t describe each one of them, let me count some of them. As we move to a new place naturally a tide of hopes and great excitement eventually blows in our mind but along with that something which disturbs our mind and body also accompanies. In clear words, what I signify is the new place greets us in a way that it is very hard to find a comfortable accommodation to fit in. As we accustomed to live in hilly area where the lofty mountains, fresh air, cool and calm environment refreshes our life. But here how far our sight can catch only the dust is to be visualized. Noises and pollutions seems like its best ornament always wear on. Truly speaking, sometime I wonder how dare the people who bear a heart to reside in such a place where even if a healthy man stays may loss his fitness. We share a moment of our life there still it seems very troublesome. But my god! I must appreciate their spirit of living who spend their whole life there without expressing a word of depression..Anyway apart from few of them, they are very different from us, the way they live, act and everything. A certain distant between our nature obstacles to cope with them effectively. These are just a brief outlook.
From the beginning onwards a chain of hard works and difficulties seems to be appointed to follow us. As buying and selecting thousands of items for the winter sell from the number of wholesellers after which all the bundles of items has been loaded on our own shoulder to the transportation center. I don’t know about other what they think of us. But God! U Just imagine! how poor condition of our body would be who worked restless and ceaseless entire day and who hardly get time to have one time of meal. And if such toil day summed up in one day or two then we may blink that as a dreadful dream but this encounter often when the shortage of items in the shops occurs. Similarly, in the case of selling too, we are bounded by some rules and regulation. So, we have to act accordingly. These are just a few negative flashes of winter selling I ever experienced. Yeah! Of course! there must be a magnificent advantage too otherwise a man who is considered to be a wisest among all living beings wont endure all these sufferings without an adequate advantage. And in my opinion and whereas I can believe in my sight, I think after toiling so hard the ostentatious result is an ample profit within a short period(four months) according to summer. As in summer we don’t get any particular profit in hand to show up. Finally, what we get is what we have. And the second one is; we are a people of hilly region where winter appears to be blessed by white snow most of time. Owing to that all the route channels get blocked whose direct impact falls on our business I mean downfall in our sells takes place. So, instead of sparing time leisurely it is thousand times better to move to other place to earn something because as the saying-something is better than nothing; Right..?
Now I think I should cease my writing here. Obviously! There are many more and long list of advantages too, to be express but I am scare to put across all in front of one who is just a new comer in our world. May be it is hard to digest. Hehe..! So, take a long breath and just chill- pill..!

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Strange Moment

Doesnt this topic sounds so peculiar? Yes ofcourse!Let me tell you clearly...!!what actually i want to convey is my view about vacation.Yes! scarcely there may be few people under same sky who dont take any fund in their vacation.But i m not belong to that category.Obeviously like most of people a huge excitement is always there in me in the case of vacation.Not because i dont wish to study and skip.Though i strongly feel my weakness in this field but a great intention and enthusiasm i always used to grab.Because its the only period during which i got an adequate time to be with my whole family after long gap.Though m living a quite luxirious hostel life in the midst of very nice and good company.As I believe that only a good comrade beautifies the life stepped away from home.Apart from that in some cases we human being always craves for frequent change. Throughout the life same shedule and activities wrest our enthusiasm and the freshness of our mind which produce a very evil impact on our every deeds(studies).In such cases if we are offered some official sort of break that will be very beneficial for us mentally.And it is the fact that physical fitness is highly dependent on mental status.However, to be fit and fine, to come out from all the mental stressness, vacation must be needed and its actually meant for i think...
So, here I am enjoying my best and most beautiful moments in my hometown with my family.Having a glance of their cheerful cheeks and countenance I find such a pleasure with no bounds.No matter whatever physical status I encounter but mentally i feel very calm and relax.When I am involved with my sisters neither of us miss to share our beautiful moments with each other.Once we gather together and start our chit chatting,even our parents cant hold us..They are much more than a best frd to me.And about being with my adorable parents there isnt any words or lines which can exhibit their love and kindness.
Anyway during this vacation my eyes were dying to have a glimpse of my eldest bro and sis but i couldnt as they are out of town.And about relation I always consider myself very lucky that i am blessed with such a beautiful, loving and caring family whose love is beyond compare..THANK YOU MY LORD FOR SUCH WONDERFUL BLESSING!! May you always shower your blessings on them!! I assure it would be my greatest fate that I am connected with them.Above that I dont expect any other relation.
Oh! in this cheerful and pleasantful chit chat I didnt noticed the passage of time and just now I am approached at the very end of my enjoyful vacation and is the most embarrassing moment which always disturbs my mind and which i wish to discard but thats not in my favour.As I have to follow the phases of life meeting and departure.How strong and hard i try to be at this moment but I cant seize my emotions.At one side there is a huge pleasure that i gonna pursue my further education and in other a very hard moment I have to confront.However,this painful departure is sufficient to violate all the happiness I accumulated during this whole vacation.Anyway I have to tackle this problem and I guess I will be fine within few days. Let me see how???